Aries (March 21 - April 19)
This sign doesn’t have a problem saying no but through their openness and trusting nature their boundaries can be crossed. Growing a skeptical and realistic side may be beneficial next time you jump to help someone or have the desire to please another without considering your needs first.
Taurus (April 20 - May 20)
This sign can easily be pressured into pleasing others or keeping the peace. Tauruans need to remember to use that stubborn side to say no more often, to stay on the path of what makes them happy. Overcoming fear of instability or losing someone is important for a Taurus to build up boundaries.
Gemini (May 21 - June 20)
This sign’s talent for talking their way out of trouble can actually be a good for those trying to break through their boundaries. Their natural desire for space and independence can also help with those trying to control them, guilt trip them, or take advantage of them.
Cancer (June 21 - July 22)
This sign is very giving and has a desire to take care of others. There’s a line Cancers must learn to balance between protecting their own heart and becoming closed off due to fears. You have to be careful of not becoming all or nothing when it comes to building up boundaries.
Leo (July 23 - August 22)
This sign has a huge desire to entertain and please! Their generous and trusting side could get used and abused. For Leos, it’s important to detach from expectations, admiration, and possibly your ego. Learn to separate public vs. private and wants vs. needs.
Virgo (August 23 - September 22)
With a desire to serve and care combined with being flexible, humble, and appreciative, you can imagine how easily Virgos feel used. Sometimes a Virgo needs to learn how to say no or to refuse to get involved - especially when no one asks them to.
Libra (September 23 - October 22)
You are considered the famous people pleaser. For Libra, the goal is to say “no” and to overcome fear of conflict. Libra is a sign that could use some practice in asserting themselves and setting stronger boundaries.
Scorpio (October 23 - November 21)
Boundaries can easily be crossed with this sign and you’re most likely to cross boundaries too. Your desire for rawness, intimacy and compassion can be a bit dangerous.
Sagittarius (November 22 - December 21)
This sign doesn’t get caught up on guilt trips or manipulation BUT they can be overly open, naïve, and have high hopes which shows where their boundaries can be broken. Coming down to earth with realism and understanding not everyone is as honest or good-natured as you Sag, is one step towards better boundaries.
Capricorn (December 22 - January 19)
This sign doesn’t really struggle with loose boundaries, but a desire to conform, provide, protect, and give back to society, may have them feeling burned out. Capricorns must know their worth, rely on their stability, and accept help from others when it’s offered.
Aquarius (January 20 - February 18)
Wanting acceptance sometimes lets peer pressure take over. Aquarius are independent, rebellious, but their desire to belong to a group, to fight for a cause or to connect socially can blur those lines, those boundaries. Learn to help those who want to help themselves.
Pisces (February 19 - March 10)
You are the queen/king of dissolved boundaries.Pisces desire to merge, help, care, and sacrifice. Before Pisces can say no and concentrate on protecting themself you need to recognize the downside of crossed boundaries.